COMMON SENSE FOR RELATIONSHIPS

My dear sister, this brother has been hanging around you for a long time. He is nice, no doubt. But hasn't said anything. But you don't mind. At least he is there. The truth of the matter is, when a man is serious, he would make his intentions known. But No. You want to give him time. And you don't want to ask him, so you don't drive him away. You keep hoping against hope. Are you Abraham?

You better ask him what his mission is. if he is stammering about it, then show him a nice red card. Even God, when people are neither hot nor cold, spews them out.
I may be writing this in a funny manner. But I tell you, these things have caused many pain in our churches.
so sister dearest, the ball is in your court ...

If not, it's on his blackberry display picture you will see his wedding invitation with another sister.


My dear sister, you know you don't want to marry that brother. However you don't want him to go. You want him to hang around until Mr RIGHT shows up. Meanwhile you know his intentions are genuine o. In fact he has even made them clear. But no, your eye is on another brother you hope will come by, and in reality this brother has no intentions of coming by. But in the interim, you keep receiving gifts and attention from the serious brother.

What you don't understand is that time is going. And what yorubas' call 'OJUKOKORO' (greed) is your problem. And if you are not careful, you will lose both ends. And then turn out to ask,"Lord, but why?"
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My dear brother, I know you did not propose to the sister. But you were calling her every 10 - 10mins. Checking up on her from time to time. In fact you send her a word for the day, everyday. Are you Open heavens daily devotional?

You listen to her when she has things to share and give her godly counsel. In fact, you pray her to bed everyday. Chatting over social media and having late night calls.

You even pick her up and drop her off when she needs a ride. And send gifts from time to time. But in fairness to you, you have not said anything. At least not anything serious.
Then you hear from a friend that the sister has asked that some friends pray for both of you as "The Lord" is doing something.


Then you get upset... " what is wrong with sister Bisi, can't someone be friendly anymore, what's wrong with all these sisters sef. Can't someone be a brother in christ again. How could she say that? I've never said anything about marriage or a relationship to her"
Na true..... when you were playing assistant Holy Ghost you didn't know abi ? For don't you know that actions speak louder that words?

My dear, ignorance is not an excuse. Stop leading them on. Read Proverbs 1:1-2. There is something a young man must have. And it's called discretion. You must know where to draw the line, and when you are crossing it.
Just say I'M SORRY. finish.

Will continue from here. Note again...ignorance never is an excuse.